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How Emotional Intelligence Works

Emotional intelligence shapes how we understand ourselves and connect with others. Here is a practical breakdown.

What emotional intelligence means

Emotional intelligence (EI) is the ability to recognize, understand and manage your own emotions, while also recognizing and influencing the emotions of others.

The core components

  • Self-awareness
  • Self-regulation
  • Motivation
  • Empathy
  • Social skills

Building emotional intelligence

EI is not fixed — it can be strengthened over time through reflection, feedback, and practicing more mindful responses instead of automatic reactions.

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About James Okafor, LMFT

LMFT

James Okafor is a licensed marriage and family therapist focused on relationships, communication and emotional wellbeing.

This article is for general educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional psychological or medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Please consult a qualified professional for guidance specific to your situation.

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