Relationships

Why People Fear Rejection

Fear of rejection is one of the most common social fears. Here is what drives it psychologically.

A deeply human fear

Humans evolved as social beings who depended on group belonging for survival, which may explain why rejection can feel so threatening even today.

How it shows up

Fear of rejection can lead to people-pleasing, avoiding vulnerability, or avoiding new opportunities altogether.

Working with the fear

  • Separate self-worth from any single outcome
  • Practice small, low-stakes vulnerability
  • Challenge all-or-nothing thinking about rejection
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About James Okafor, LMFT

LMFT

James Okafor is a licensed marriage and family therapist focused on relationships, communication and emotional wellbeing.

This article is for general educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional psychological or medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Please consult a qualified professional for guidance specific to your situation.

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